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holy shit…..yeterday was the most memorable concert that i’d attended….Zhang Zhen Yue really rock it hard…well actually i did write a long thing so syok until i press wrong thing and all boom….gone…arh…never mind just make it short….

for the concert i rated it 9 out of 10…because the crowd was not very packed…still have spaces for air ventilation, nice view and spot though is quite far…but i can see the whole of him performing..no prob at all…no head barrier or blocking view…the performance and music is good….the other is just because im a victim of second hand smoker and no other people, just alone…if not i’ll order a cup of henessy vsop shanghai and we all GET HIGH….!

standing there performing with a neat look, shaven beard, black tee, a pair of jean, watch in his right hand and a sneaker makes him the main performer…oh and the suprize is the guest appearance by MC HOTDOG….(holy shit….double combo of rock and hip hop, rap and acoustic)….

i cant tell hows the feeling when in the concert yday but all i can say we all have a good shout of all songs that he perform…..but all i can say is live performance is no match for those music coming out from ur stereo….at first the crowd just catching all the tunes he play until the universal song of his been played at the third song he perform….YES PEOPLE….FEN SHOU BA….! imagine the crowd, the echoes, the music, the performance and the song that unites us all sang as loud as we could when he reach the chorus….(fen shou ba, wo men fen shou ba, bu yau zhai pi wo shuo ni hai ai zhe wo….) holy shit that was the moment of unforgetable….

let me recap songs that he had performed yday (cant remember all)…ai de zhu di yen, fen shou ba, freenight, one night stand, wo yau qian, zi you, zai jian, ma la sha, gan mei mei, nan zhi han and afew acoustic which is yong chi, ai wo bie zhou (this is the last song he perform after all of us shouting ENCORE…), yi kai shi jiu mei tuei lu, wa zhi (this song he performed is sang by a good friend of his as he claim, neh…the female taiwanese singer that sing mandarin version of ‘apple tree’ u know rite? who’s that name a?), and so on…well for the suprizing side where he (ah yue) introduced MC HOTDOG to the stage…he performs 4 of his songs which is an ke (encore), wo xing wo shu (if im not mistaken), mu lau hu (female tiger which refers to ur wife back home) and the collaboration of both and the jumping part of all the crowd….wo ai tai mei (i love taiwanese girl)….hhaahaahah….two thumbs up….!

holy shit…no complain….just regrets cos didnt buy a more expensive ticket so i can get more up close to him and get a bigger person of his picture and songs that he perform…in fact i did take some shots of his and MC HOTDOG together with some songs recorded…just that i dunno how to post it up for u guys have a look…..i remember 1 part where he broke the string of his guitar when performing…suddenly he said…"apologise cos string broken, since the string is broken then i think i need to give it out my guitar, if u guys shout out loud"….holy shit….everybody shout like hell….then suddenly he said…"DUN WAN…!" hahaaha…bangang….

wat else more? well i dunno think thats all i have to write…till i found out how to post the pictures and songs that i recorded for u guys look…i enjoyed….hope u guys too…enjoy something that ur into right now…

The 90/10 Principle by Stephen Covey

Discover the 90/10 Principle. It will change your life. What is the 90/10 Principle? 10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react. What does this mean? We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.

How? By your reaction.

You cannot control a red light, but you can control your reaction. Don’t let people fool you; YOU can control how you react.

Let’s use an example:

You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened. What happens next will be determined by how you react. You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over.

She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit. After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terribly. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home, When you arrive home, you find a small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter. Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why did you have a bad day?

A) Did the coffee cause it?

B) Did your daughter cause it?

C) Did the policeman cause it?

D) Did you cause it?

The answer is D. You had no control over what happened with the coffee.

How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.

Here is what could have and should have happened:

Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "It’s ok honey, you just need, to be more careful next time." Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.

Notice the difference? Two different scenarios. Both started the same.

Both ended different. Why? Because of how you REACTED.

You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.

Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle:

If someone says something negative about you, don’t be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don’t have to let the negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off! Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them? WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work?

Why let the cars ruin your drive? Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.

You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job.

The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant?

She has no control over what is going on. Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out?

It will just make things worse.

Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it.

The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.

The result? Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. There never seem to be a success in life. Bad days follow bad days. Terrible things seem to be constantly happening. There is constant stress, lack of joy, and broken relationships.

Worry consumes time. Anger breaks friendships and life seems dreary and is not enjoyed to the fullest. Friends are lost.

Life is a bore and often seems cruel. Does this describe you? If so, do not be discouraged. You can be different! Understand and apply the 90/10 principle. It will change your life

recently i went to my secondary school’s fren open house for hari raya with macy and ivan…(yup think u guys know whats the news…) by the way there i never knew that one of the other secondary school fren joseph will come along and join…(for u guys information, he’s married earlier this year)…so cut the thing short…after for some chatting in my malay fren house haz, we (me,joseph and xoon) went to joseph’s house and out for yam cha in his area….well at first we all think that thing happens between joseph and his wife then he get marry early but hell NO…! and im quite interested to know what happen actually…and this question is still bugging in my mind….y he wanted to marry in this kinda age and time….? isn’t he still young…? can he cope by it financially and independently?

to tell u guys…this is my opinion…for me i WON’T get marry in this kinda age…y u all may ask…well simple…first is im still young and is too early, i still not yet enjoy my youthness in my life…common, im just 22 and still counting and im a youg adult and this is the time for me to enjoy my single before i get attached with someone (not to say i dun wana gf ok?) next, im still not matured (compared with other people that i knew they are really good in their life which is good to their parents and friends). think u guys know what i mean, im still playful and stubborn and ‘mou tai mou sai’…hahaha bangang…cantonese pulak…

third…i still cant support myself financially so what the heck i wanna find a girl and marry….? for me if i cant own a house and a car i will definetely wun ask my future gf for marriage…for me this not only will make myself suffer but ur gf oso…(unless both of u are very committed to each other u know that kinda thing when ur getting married in church…blah blah blah…duno duno duno something then if ur rich or poor?) then i cant have that kind of financial security…how am i gonna secured my future wife…(summore ur future children ler?) for me i can have a simple life but in this realistic world where almost everything is money related…u cant seems to avoid things that u will need when ur married…(been taught by my mother’s fren again hahah, guess is not bad after all)

though this is all my cons about marriage but seems like actually u can think on the bright side when ur married…everyday u wake up u saw ur husband/wife besides u…u guys know la this kinda things…(imagination people…THINK)…he/she will be by ur side 24/7 365…yup in conclusion everything will have its pros and cons….its up to us to decide whats the best option for us….(i will blog about this and money topic in the future, yup promise)..in the meantime for those who are married (few % only) wish u guys ever lasting and ‘bak tou dou lou’…it means together till ur hair is white or bald….HAHAHA…then for those which their profile stated ‘in a relationship’, hope u guys enjoy the moment and hope u guys have pick the right ‘one’…and for those who’s single…(yup im this category)…hey people out there who’s fall in this category….LIVE UR LIFE AND ROCK IT…..!hehhee…doesnt means that we cant enjoy our life if we cant find a partner rite…take ur time….CCHHHOOOOSSSEEE the right 1,analyst it then only go pakto ma rite? hahaha…enjoy the companion of our friends…(to tell u guys, last time i was really desperate to have a gf, but i’d misconception to have a gf, i really found some friends that really rock my life…heheh i think they know who am i talking about…pandai borak sahaja) not saying that i forget those past time fren ok…! go find some activity that u enjoy (i found 1,but lazy to do it…haih…) erm yup i think this all i wanna blog about, hope u guys enjoy it…hope that this topic will make us all ponder awhile about what we want in our life…ciao…until i come out with another interesting topic ok….bye…!

music of the day - quite awhile i din intro some songs to u guys to listen…erm today i wanna intro a few songs for u all

1) tian tian ye ye (everyday everynight) by F.I.R - this is a remake of trisha yearwood ‘how do i live’ but its very nice….thumbs up…! hurrah for F.I.R

2) the last track from edison chen first album ‘please steal this album’ - which is mc yan from LMF sang this songs actually…not a nice song but the content is meaningful…! try to listen to it if u have the cd…

3) for girls out there, this songs is for u all…its called ‘beautiful skin’ by edison chen feat mc yan and mc chef… this song sings out most female’s heart, emotion and condition…

(hey im not edison’s fan, y i like asian rap especially hong kong rap is because i can understand what they wanna sing unlike western hip hop, rap and r’n'b…we just know the music unless we go and read those lyrics…)

thats y i like LMF and MP4 last time…funny and meaningful songs they have…yeah MP4 tod i wanna intro some songs oso but their title is too long and i dun understand chinese…sorry…will post it out in future if i know the songs ok? ciao…!

sorry people for my late entry of posting blog…cos im quite lazy nowdays, spoil my mood due to my modem being struck by lighting…cis…summore im addicted to that ps1 game called final fantasy tactic….cant stop…! actually i got many things that i wanna post and share it to u all but….haih…what to do? so here are some jokes again to entertain you all people out there first ok? this jokes is an old email that i had received back in few years back and now i wanna dig it out for you all…you may thought that you had read b4 but hey…just for some laughter right? enjoy…..

The wonderful word of TEW

Hey! be proud of this contonese word "TEW"
Perhaps one of the most interesting and colorful word in
Cantonese today is the word Tew.
It is the one magical word
which just by the sound can describe pleasure, hate and love.
Tew falls into many grammatical categories. It can
be used as a verb both transitive
(eg Goh tewed Irene) and intransitive (eg Irene was tewed by Goh).
It can be a noun
(eg Goh doesn’t give a tew about Irene)
or an adverb (Irene is tew-ing beautiful).
It should be obvious by now that there are not many words as
versatile
as
the word Tew.
Besides its sexual connotation, this lovely word can
be used to described many situations :
Fraud - Ngor pei yan tew chor
Dismay - Tew nia ma hai
Trouble - Li chii tew lo
Aggression - Tew kow lei
Passive - Tew ngor
Confusion - Tew mat chat?
Difficulty - Tew, ng chat meng ah…
Despair - Li by tew lo
Philosophical - Mm lan tew hai lah.
Religious - Omi toh foot, tew
Incompetence - Oh, tew lo
Laziness - Tew lan lei lo hai
Displeasure - Tew, fart sang mei yeh see ah?
Rebellion - Tew chart hoi
Direction - Mart chart tew tei fong ah..
The mind really boggles at the many creative uses.
How could anyone be offended when you say "Tew"?
Use it in your daily speech - it adds to your
PRESTIGE.
TELL SOMEONE TODAY — "TEW KOW LEI" !!!

Here’s another one….

If u guys are learning japanese, well here is some good starter for beginner…

Know your Japanese…
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>1. What does a broken hearted Japanese call himself?
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>Hatikukecewa
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>2. What does a Japanese say to a girl when he wants to harass her?
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>Marikuraba
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>3. How do you call a dirty-minded Japanese?
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>Otakukoto
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>4. How does a group of Japanese boys say when they want to f*** a girl?
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>Ramaiboleka
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>5. What do you call a cheap Japanese prostitute?
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>Pukimura
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>6. How does a flat-chested Japanese girl describe herself?
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>Tetekurata
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>7. What does a Japanese man say to a reluctant Japanese girl?
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>Maukasika
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>8. How does a Japanese man invite a girl to have s** with him?
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>Maumainka
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>9. How does a Japanese ask if they are hairy?
>
>Adalebatka

hope u guys have a great days ahead…well gonna finish off my FFT and waiting for my idol the legendary taiwanese rocker….zhang zhen yue…! haha…ciao…!